In this story, she shares how she built trusting relationships and strengthened a family’s capacity through online interactions.
In January 2022, Amy started working with Viktoriya, mum to Erika and Jackson. 2 year old Erika had been diagnosed with cerebral palsy and 6-year-old Jackson had suspected autism and ADHD. Due to 2021’s lockdowns, Erika missed almost a year of therapy.
Amy and Viktoriya had all of their conversations over the phone and Amy did her best to build a strong and trusting relationship. Amy had to learn how to create a rapport with Viktoriya through their conversations.
They had long, regular calls. Viktoriya explained that she looked forward to their chats as it gave her a chance to talk and made her feel less alone. Amy soon learnt Viktoriya had no family in Australia except for her husband. During their phone calls, Amy provided much needed support to Viktoriya. Amy helped her understand the needs of her children and to learn how to deal with the challenges their journey brought them.
By providing an ear to listen to, Amy also provided emotional support to Viktoriya similar to what a friend may provide. Sharing their mothering strategies and coming from no judgment – Amy became a place of care.
Amy is a mother herself and understands the unique challenges of parenting. Amy explained, “I have had other parents mention to me that they simply like having another person to talk to and bounce ideas off. You need to be reminded that you are doing a good job. It is very easy to doubt your parenting skills when your child is struggling!”
The path to independence
In March 2022, Jackson turned 7 and had to leave Early Support. However, Amy is certain that Viktoriya now has the confidence to support Jackson’s needs. Viktoriya has a plan, with a direction of where they need to head and strategies to use with Jackson to support his goals.
Amy states that the most important part of her role in Early Support is to build capacity in parenting. This means supporting the family so they can support their children the best they can.
Amy has been sharing her expertise as an Early Childhood Educator for 23 years. She explains, that as parents we are all trying our best.
“We want to bring up our children to be the best version of themselves and offer them a world where they are capable of anything,” says Amy.
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